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Friday Natter

on January 12, 2018

The weather has been unusually cool to the point of cold, which is something I am not complaining!

 Apparently the MET service shared that this is due to the movement of the South China Sea! Hmm, maybe my lil red dot may see lower temperatures for a while longer. Our average temperatures are usually 33 degrees Celsius and peaking at 34 degrees Celsius. These few days it has been 22.1 degrees Celsius and I am delighted for the heat reprieve.

 I just hope that on Monday, my parents’ home move may be without rain but with cooler temperatures. I am keeping all four paws crossed and eyes too! LOL!

 As I wind down on a Friday, I cannot help but think of the myriad of issues that have plagued my life thus far. I wonder, if like the weather, I will be granted reprieve from medical issues or family issues anytime soon! Sigh!

I strongly believe that all my life stresses actually made me ill. The years of family horrors, work horrors and relationship horrors stressed me so bad that I fell ill,

 I have given up on finding a good male partner, I dare not even think of husband material as this has proven to be very wrong for me after the experience with MR EX.

 Looking back in hindsight, I realised that MR EX never cared for me. He cared for the network worth that I have or the business opportunities that I could provide.

 Once I stopped providing that, so did his presence. This made me realize that I was never a friend and our so called relationship was based on monetary worth!

 Life is funny I feel. If one hinges on “using one”, it is really not friendship or any form of relationship.

I remember I used to argue with him as he would try and use semantics to cover up his antics. My point to him was that friendship is a form of relationship and in any relationship, there is some form of friendship. He argued that friendship is friendship and there is no relationship.

I told him that I was not interested in any form of “ship” from him as he was basically a moron or pardon my French, he is akin to an “asshole” and that he should go to hell and stay there! Yup..I can be a meanie too! ;-(

Hmm, he would be best friends with Satan and together with Satan, they can forge a fantastic friendship and I cannot be bothered what sort of relationship they can have. Perhaps he can con Satan to be his Slave as he claims to be a Mastery of sorts.

MR EX’s experience taught me to turn up my noses at those motivational speakers (* it is very wrong of me to brandish all the same but MR EX has left a bad taste in my understanding of motivational speakers as he does these so called boot camps and charge thousands of dollars to get unsuspecting minions in a ballroom to pump up in adrenalin with loud music and a series of acts.

I am one of those that would never be in those camps. Firstly, I ain’t paying $1,500 for a weekend session just to feel good about myself when happiness lies within self.

Yet he has a following who would be “charmed” to follow him to the ends of the earth to hear his hoopla!

 Ah well, to each their own choosing! If people can afford to part with thousands of dollars every quarter to feel good, it is their “medicine” and he is the “Chief BullShit Of Running Cow”





15 responses to “Friday Natter

  1. juliehcares says:

    Sounds like one of the preachers here in Houston. He’s not actually a preacher, he’s a motivational speaker and he asks for money every weekend!

  2. winfred says:

    Lol… quit relationships and deal with family..
    Your Mr Ex sounds worse than mine. Though mine left with some of my cash. Also a user. The relationship went for 3 months. I quit and gave up on trying to be in relationships

    • Garfield Hug says:

      Lol! But I feel you my friend. Sigh. My family is no better. I live in isolation as am done trying. Sad😓 For my own sanity I stay single and away from my horrid siblings.

      • winfred says:

        Aww…. be my sister. I promise to be nice but eat all your food. If you ever decide to visit Kenya, I will be here and you can meet my crazy family we share. Hopefully you ain’t vegetarian

        • Garfield Hug says:

          Hey! This is awfully sweet of you sister!! 👍I will try and visit Kenya one day. If you ever visit Singapore we can try our local food. No, I am not a vegetarian haha! Would love to meet your family. I am glad you have a close knit family. Happy weekend ahead sister 😊🤗🤗

          • winfred says:

            Hopefully I will visit one day… oh.. am also grateful everyday for them
            Thanks sister.. and you definitely have to be younger than me so I can bully you.. ❤
            Have a great weekend

  3. scifihammy says:

    Wishing you all the best for your parents’ move on Monday. I think you should award yourself a mini holiday break after all that stress and take some time to recover!
    Happy Friday! 🙂

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